It took me a long time to get over my ex who cheated on me. I feel like a part of me still wants him and I hate that I do. I just keep telling myself something that my Grandma told me a long time ago. She told me you can’t drive a car while looking in the rearview mirror. The past is always going to be there, but you have to move forward and be your own hero. I hope this helps someone else going through the same thing.