The "Best Friend"Tori Robinson @ 2019-01-03 09:13:32 -0800
I have been conflicted for a couple of weeks now about something I am a little embarrassed to say, but I’m just going to say it. My boyfriend’s best friend of 10 years is a girl- lets call her Ashley. I met Ashley at a bar two weeks after my boyfriend and I started dating and immediately I was jealous. Not only is she absolutely beautiful, but their friendship is something that intimidates me. Their families are friends, they listen to the same music, they both love the yankees, they know everything about each other and I swear it seems as if they can read each other’s minds. I don’t want to feel like I have to compete with Ashley, but every time she texts him, I see him perk up and he always answers her right away. Sometimes when I text him he doesn’t answer me for a couple of hours. I don’t know if I am being crazy, or if they are actually in love with each other but will never admit it. Has anyone else ever been in a situation like this? I don’t know what to do.
Girl you shouldn’t have to feel like you need to compete with her. even if they really are just friends you don’t need to be in that situation. say peace
maybe talk about the future, and if he sees you in it then he’s definitely committed and wants to be with you forever. If he talks about short term and the “right now” then maybe talk about where he see this heading. This is important for your future happiness! all the best <3